Happiness

Once again, I come to the conclusion that happiness is a choice. You have to actively choose it and the actions that support it. This means not wallowing, not dwelling, especially in self-pity, or imagining the worst outcomes in the future, or even taking your thoughts seriously.

 By choosing happiness you are taking on a responsibility to dispel any negativity, to always choose love over fear,  to not associate yourself and your identity with the drama and past hurts and pains made up by your mind and perpetuated by your thoughts.

"You are unique, and you have to accept you as you are, instead of trying to repeat other people’s destinies or patterns. Insanity is to behave like someone that you are not.

Normality is the capacity to express your feelings. From the moment that you don’t fear to share your heart, you are a free person."

 Paolo Coelho,
http://paulocoelhoblog.com/
 (I highly recommend to check out his amazing, inspiring blog)